Hey guys, my name is Ethan. My girlfriend of only a few months officially ended things this past Wednesday after breaking up with me about a month before(we were trying to figure out our relationship over that time by “casually dating”).
She decided to call it quits on trying to figure it out and said she would think about reconsidering at some point and the next day(Thursday), she came into my work(we work in the same mall) and said “You know we are still friends right?” to which I responded yes. She also asked me to smile because she always liked my smile or she’d pinch me which was something she liked to do while we were in a relationship.
Lead up to Saturday, in which I have been initiating no contact since Wednesday. I have no texted her or anything, but I saw she posted about being at the football game on her Instagram so I decided to leave a like because why not. I didn’t check my phone for awhile after that because I had been hanging with some friends and drinking and lost my phone. When I found it again, I came to find that she had unadded me on social media but hadn’t blocked me.
To note, she still follows my close coworker/friend on Facebook and follows my sister on Instagram, which I found very interesting.
I truly want nothing more than to get back together with her and she even said on Wednesday that she wanted to hangout on my birthday and give me my gift(my birthday is in about a week and a half).
I am mainly here for advice, because I feel like I should just leave her be and with her personal life taking over right now, I hope she decides to come around again when she is in a better mental state. Any advice is helpful and thank you for listening.
@EthanSmith1998 Sounds like she put you in the friend zone after dating you a few months. Nothing much you can do to change her mind… You could try no contact and maybe over time she will reconsider. Don’t pay any attention to social media stuff as it doesn’t help your situation trying to figure out what things mean.
@patricia12 Would there be any reason why she would do it so randomly though? She randomly blocked me on Twitter on Thursday but stayed with unfollowing on everything else… It just seems that she wants me to react because I have not initiated any kind of contact.
@EthanSmith1998 OMG! Are we going to play guessing games about her blocking and unfollowing? No use in doing that because nobody knows the answer except her! So stop obsessing about it.
Continue no contact… and start dating other girls who are more mature. You will be happier in the long run:)