To break or not to break

So I’ve been in NC for 22 days. Dated a previous ex from about 3 years ago. Have another date with her in a few days. Problem is that although I have accepted the current breakup up there are still some feelings and lingering hope. Sooooo I’m think about breaking NC by saying… Hey xxxx, hope you are doing well… Any chance I could swing by to pick up my things over the next couple of days? If yes then it would be a bit of a fishing trip to see if there were any spark there. What do you guys think?

@ofc_im_a_nice_guy - Wait another week or two and then send contact her about picking up your things.