Dear all,
I would really appreciate some help, especially a guy’s view.
After being completely honest with my ex how I felt about him and that if there was a chance to work things out then to let me know. So we met up a few weeks ago for drinks, we were both nervous and didn’t talk much. But he said ‘keep in touch’ and hugged me at the end of the meeting.
A couple of weeks later I spent the weekend at his (he lives outside the city), which he gave me a spare train ticket that he had. The weekend was quite fun, we played some sport and went to the cinema. After that we went back to his, his mum being there, and he cooked dinner. We didn’t have much time to talk the first day. The following day, his mum went out early in the morning, so we spent the morning together. And we kissed and slept together (sorry about the detail but it might be important as I continue on). For the rest of the day we were out window shopping, and yet again didn’t talk about us. Also, I felt so nervous and scared too. Before I went to take the train station we kissed and hugged and he said to text him when I’m back in London.
Then the following week, for 5 days we were in touch, only via text, and I initiated all of the texting. I sensed he was a bit distant. I assumed we were both back together and even said ‘I want our relationship to become stronger’ etc.
Then on the Friday I said ‘will you call me tomorrow?’ and then he didn’t reply. He said that he would be busy all weekend sorting his house out, so I thought he might be in his cave and didn’t think much of it. But then I text and called him twice on Monday to ask how he was and if something is up, but no reply and he didn’t pick up my calls or return them. It’s now Wednesday, I’ve text him to ask how his weekend was, and tried to call tonight but nothing.
Guys - please give me an honest answer of your view. I feel angry, hurt, confused and humiliated. I’ve been trying to figure out if he’s angry at me - he planned pretty much of the whole weekend. I don’t know if he’s angry because I didn’t suggest anything. He’s always said he likes to do/plan things together. But this silence is like a punishment.