Slowly being ghosted, What do I say to get them to talk??

Im 21, they are 19. 4 month relationship.

They were hiding facts, I retaliated by breaking up and then mistakenly tried to move on too fast and then cheated.

its been 2 month of on/off contact. I’ve only could do max of 2 weeks of no contact. Early this month they said they still liked me but hated the idea of it.

These past 3 weeks they have been ignoring my messages for the most part.

We would watch each others Instagram Stories from time to time. I had responded to one and they asked why I was watching them (even tho they had been watching me first) I replied that it was because they were watching mine and thats it.

Should I continue another week no contact? (making 2 in total) and then reply?
Or should I try responding with a memory text? Since my elephant text failed with a negative response.

Doing another month no contact and they may just find some else…

What can I say to get them to talk?

@Chimmychan Who is “they”? Is it one or two girls or what?

If you broke up, it’s not cheating, is it…

What facts were hidden? Did you have any flaws that were a negative to the situation?

If your messages have been ignored, continue no contact for a month.

After that, you could ask to talk things over.