Hey,
me and my (ex) girlfriend have been together for 3 months. In the last two weeks I recognized that she acted a bit strange while spending time with me, but I thought it’s temporary. Then she went on a school trip and after returning, she didn’t text me back regularly. 5 days later she broke up with me, since she doesn’t have feelings for me anymore. The breakup was “great”. I wished her all the best for her future and told her that I hope she will find love soon. I entered NC immediately for 5 weeks. She didn’t text me and I didn’t text her. We didn’t have any interaction during this time, I didn’t act needy and I spent time working on my insecurity (which was the cause of the breakup as far as I can tell).
Last Tuesday (05.28.) I sent her a Good Memory Text. I got a positive response from her. I answered with a message, telling her that I’m learning sth new and that it is great to hear from her, but that I have to go now. It took her 2h to read the text (it must have been 11 p.m.) and she did not respond - good start I thought. The next day during lunch break, she responded with a trivial but friendly text. I answered with a question, planning to have a short conversation, but she didn’t respond until now (05.31.).
I thought to have the right mindset and that I’m ready to text her, but currently I’m quite uneasy. The situation reminds me of the days before our breakup.
Do you have any suggestion how to proceed?
Thank you for your help 