Where have you been @RustyRed? How’s things going man?
Hey dude been busy with moving out of our old flat. Ye ive been ok trying my hardest to put a brave face on it. Still hurting a bit. Yesterday was hard moving out. Had to drop some of her stuff off at her mums. Wow that was emotional her mum was so upset that we had broken up. She started crying and I had to hug her to control her. She was very upset. Was on the phone with my ex last night arranging final bit and pices about our old flat. but she was asking me about my night. Me and a friend went out on mon and got drunk. She was asking who we met etc! Got to go round and see her tonight with the rest of her stuff. Then I start no contact, not sure how this will all go. But got a busy day today cleaning the old flat then setting up my new place. So enough to keep me busy!
How about u ?
How are you @LAgirl
What do u guys think? I’m struggling today, I’m in the flat cleaning and all I can think about is her. I need to see her tonight to drop off her stuff and I’m scared I’ll be an emotional wreck. Also I can’t get how her mum was last night out of my head. I wish I could turn back time. I miss her so much 
Be strong and remember whatever you are going through if for a better tomorrow. if you are not ready to meet her in person then drop her things off at her new place without meeting her.
Dont think so much about her or her mom its only going to mess up with your head and feelings. Its better to let it go and heal yourself first.
I know but there nothing more I want than to get her back. I’m sure there might be a small chance.
Be strong and have faith! You gotta believe in yourself! Show her that you can live without her! That way she will realize she made the mistake! Don’t be desperate and needy! You gotta stay strong! Did you contact that guy I told you about?
Ye I never got a reply.
I’m trying to stay strong, I just wish I could win her over. When I see her tonight I’ll have more of an idea how she’s feeling it will be the first time we have seen each other for nearly two weeks. I’m going to play it cool though.
How are u these days? Ok?
So that’s it I dropped of her stuff. It wasn’t that bad, I made her laugh as we joked and talked. She even gave me ‘that’ look for a bit. She kept asking if I would be ok. I was cool & confident, didn’t break down. She even said To contact her if I needed. Then we had a long hug and I said my goodbye. I’m suprised by the way it went. Now for no contact for 30+ days and hopefully she will start to miss me. I plan on sending my letter after 30 days and see where it takes us.
Feeling a lot more positive about the situation now,after 30+ days who know what might happen. She obiasly still cares a great deal. I won’t give up hope just yet!
Give it time. Me and my ex are talking on a daily basis. We are going out to dinner on Friday night. (It’s not a date.) trust me man. Start working out and change. She will notice. The only problem is she is hanging out with abother guy. But he has no job, no car and still lives at home with mommy and daddy. That won’t last and I know it.
Ye I will she needs space at the moment. I’ll give her a month then contact her again. She where we go. I think I can win her round. It will be hard but I know I can. I have to belive I can.
@ryan6611 that won’t last will it surlry. How long have u been split for?
@ryan6611 how did you get to the point where you and your ex on a daily basis? Right now my ex seems to be in a rebound (or about to be in one).
It’s a waiting game but that’s what needs to happen. I’m hopeing that she will see the change in me. I want to win her heart back so bad.
My story. But she left on Dec. 10th. Didn’t see her till two weeks after we broke up.
When she saw me for the first time I lost 39 lbs In a month. I was calm and positive. She did tell me that she loves me and cares about me. You just have to be better than the rebound. It’s going to take time Rusty. You have to get her trust back first. Then work on from there. It sucks but it is worth the time. Try to be her “friend” if you know what I mean. Plus MJ don’t worry about the rebound it will make you go nuts and make you do something you will regret. It’s going to take Time…
Its definitely making me go nuts hahaha. We have mutual friends so I hear about her sometimes
Hi RustyRed. That all sounds positive. Now she’s seen you looking cool and confident, give her time to think about everything and wonder what you are up to. Be strong!
My ex suggested we meet to talk things over and see if there is a way forward! I am meeting this afternoon. Wish me luck!