What do I do in my weak moments? I can feel one coming on as night time gets closer and closer. I cracked and looked at her facebook profile. We’re not friends since I took her off a while back, but I still see profile picture changes, etc. I know I shouldn’t have, but I just slipped
That is a definite no-no! I refuse to even consider looking at one of my ex’s social media sites. If he unfollows me, I just unfollow him back. I don’t look at anything. It sucks to say, but I don’t and I don’t care to. So stop that!
For your weak moments just talk to us. Vent to us. Tell us about what you’re feeling and thinking. We will help you through it. Just remember that it is a blast from the past and no matter what, you can’t change it.
It’s so hard trying to not think about next semester and her coming back as well as not thinking about her or getting hope
By next semester, you’ll probably be over her. Look at it that way. Read the post that I posted on @betweens thread. It goes for the both of you!
I’m trying to think like that and remember that in 3 months, I’m probably not going to care and may or may not be over it/her
Its not that you won’t care. You’ll just come to acceptance and move on!
You know, a couple hours ago, I began thinking about “how could my ex do all of that horrible stuff to me? how could he be with other women? how could he hurt me so bad? how could he claim to even love me?” and I almost began to start crying, but I stopped myself and I said to myself “I will cry another day. But as for right now it doesn’t matter.” I’ve gotten on with the rest of my night since then.
I have no promises to how easy it will become. But I’m not saying it won’t become easy within some way shape or form.
It’s a lot easier during the day to ward off the bad feelings, but at night, it’s not nearly as effective. Today’s one of the hard days because I can’t stop thinking about it. I try and remember all the advice I’ve given to y’all and all the advice y’all have given to me, that I don’t know the future and that exes always come back eventually, but it’s just a feeling I can’t shake at the moment and it’s difficult to move past and cheer myself up