We were hanging out for about 7 months. I always wanted to be with her but had some fears of commitment. I was finally able to man up and ask her to be with me about 7 months into it. We were “officially” together for probably two months. She ended up breaking up with me because she said I took too long to show my feelings and emotions, even though I always wanted to be with her and in my opinion was pretty good to her.
Two days after she broke up with me, yes two days, she started to hang out with her ex boyfriend of an on/off 6 year relationship. She has told me she wants to remain friends because she doesnt have many good friends like me, but as of right now, we are not talking, not hanging out, nothing.
Did she always want to get her ex back? Was I just a “filler” to get her ex to come back to her? That is what it seems like. I love her, and want her more than anyone, but is this even worth perusing? Or am I just setting myself up for more hurt?
Of course there is more to the story, but this is a dumbed down, quick version of it.
Any advice would be helpful. Thank you in advance.
May be you were here rebound or her ex b/f kept pursuing her even tho she was with you,and once she finds excuse for break up.She dumped you and went to him.Take it easy 7 months is not that much of time even I know it hurts.Do no contact and look for other fishes in market.You will know results in 60 days or less if you do NC starting today @
She cut off ties with her ex when we were together, but its starting to see that maybe thats not true. I spend enough time with her that I would of known, and didnt pick up on anything.
She says she liked me a lot in the start, but lost interest because I took too long to make it “official.” I liked her the whole tiem but wanted to make sure, is that such a bad thing?
Im trying the NC deal. Im not sure if she will contact me to be honest, from what I know of her, which is a lot (i thought) she wont care. Its a shit situation and seems like I got myself made a fool of.
Just do NC and don’t think of anything else at this time.Leave her and your mind alone even tho it is toughest thing to do,i am doing NC and reaching almost 90 days but what else can be done ? Ask yourself if you have already done begging,apology,changes in your attitude and also ready to be door mat and she is still not back right ? Correct me if I am wrong