Day 18 of the NC period was yesterday, she called me and i didnt answer. I feel i am not ready to deal with her being a smartass or being cruel. So does this mean she feels as if i would be the same as well? In 18 days, ive done a lot for my own growth,but thats for myself and no one else. Any advice on what i should do now? Continue through til the 30th day amd then write a letter? What if she calls again? What if she texts asking why im ignoring her? What if, she doesnt call again?
If you’re not ready, you’re not ready. If she calls again, chances are you’ll have some feeling (positive or negative toward thr impending conversation), just like your did the last time. If you don’t feel like talking to her, then don’t. You guys are broken up; you are no longer obligated to respond to any form of communication that doesn’t make you feel comfortable.