Sent a txt to her for the first time in 5 weeks over hour ago. No answer yet. Getting scared =/ Help
If u r scared thats mean u did not back to the same guy u were then i dont recommande it at all
Be strong and dont be a chicken u the man
I know. I was so hard to txt her. NC ws tough as nails and im just looking to get everything off my chest because i never did when she broke up with me. Blindsided badly. Once that is done, ill be able to settle my brain and know that i said what i needed to say and she heard it. I dont know the outcome, but I just need to be heard out finally so i can go on living.
@Jared what did you say?
I can talk to u one in one if u wanna know what else u need to do
@KD1988 Just reached out basically. said i know u asked for time and i respect that, that it might be a good idea for us to meet up and talk. To let me know what she thinks.
@JeanValins Thanks man. Im pretty much in the clear. Still hurts terribly but i think the NC worked wonders. What is eating at me is that I just have so many questions and stuff that i just want her to hear, and thats it.
Could it also be she might of blocked my number since we last txted a month ago? There is no way of telling unless you call but i dont want to take that risk.
@Jared you are starting to overthink. Maybe you weren’t ready to reach out yet. When you are ready you won’t be as bothered if you don’t get a reply or wondering why you don’t get a reply. Just be calm, and clear and collected
Should i send the same msg on FB to her? Ill state “not sure if you got my txt. U might have me blocked, idk.” then ill repeat the msg. Good idea?
@Jared, no I don’t think you should. Because if she hasn’t blocked you and she HAS got it, then you look desperate and needy. Just give her some time.
@jared I agree with KD! Give her time… If she hasn’t replied in say a week, send a different message but via a different means? So send it on Facebook instead of text, just not both! And don’t mention the original message…
Okay that sounds like a solid plan. It sucks to wait another whole week tho. Really have to get this off my chest, see where it goes, so i can start to just move on with life
After a whole month, you would think she would at least txt back “not yet” or something. You think you know somebody…
You don’t know what she is thinking. If she has got it she could be thinking of the right thing to say back. You must give her time. You can’t pressure her or she will run a mile and you don’t want that. Just be patient. I agree, if in a week you haven’t heard from her then send her something else by a different way
I will. I just hope that she DID get it and at least saw what it said. I dont think im blocked but there is always a chance. I really hope she got it and is doin what you are saying. As long as i get any kind of answer. That would be fine.
@jared you have to be fine even if she doesn’t reply at all, otherwise you shouldn’t of sent the text because you weren’t ready. You send these things not expecting anything back and being ok
@KD1988 see i dont know if ill ever be rdy cause i never got the closure i needed. It just eats away at me all day. So many unanswered questions…
might i ask how old you and your ex are jared?
@Phonis I am 24, she is 22. Ill be 25 in june, she will be 23 in july.