Just need some encouragement. I’m currently on like day 6 of NC after having broke it twice. I saw a picture of her kissing another guy she’s been talking to the past couple weeks. It sucks and I’m hoping he’s just a rebound because he’s a bad influence. He does drugs and he is just not a good guy for her. Does anyone have any idea on how rebound relationships usually last? I just need some encouraging words please…
I think rebounds depend on quite a few things. How soon did this happen after the breakup? Also, do not say a word to her about it being a rebound or anything because it will push her to stick with it, and if he’s as bad an influence as you say she does not need that in her life.
Keep your chin up high with the rest of us. I think it’s okay to worry a little bit when we see/hear things like that, I know I do at times, but we don’t know the whole story. Both the people posting on here and our exes are going through a lot of emotions and it can be confusing.
I’ve seen this mentioned a lot on the forums and I know it’s helped me a lot, so mull it over maybe? “Water your own grass.” Hope this helped a bit.