I’m a newbie here, so if I steer off track a thousand pardons. Me and my GF have been in a romantic two year relationship. Near the end she was becoming more cold towards me, and humiliated over something trivial at her family’s house. Long story short, she called me the next day and I announced that I never wanted to see her again. The very next day she was texting me on FB over some phoney reason to talk to me. I replied in one sentence, and never contacted her again for 5 weeks. (this was around Christmas), and I was beginning to miss her like crazy!! I texted her to say I felt terrible about everything, and if we could talk some time? She cooly responded that it was best we go our separate ways. I counter replied with reasons I wanted this relationship to continue, and what things I would do to change for the better. She said she needed time and space away from me to think things over. Now I’m in the position where I feel I’m the one being dumped. It’s been a month of NC, should I give it another month or two?
Something like that happened to me,but he was being a total jerk for the last year, buy I am sure he loved me and he still does. If she asks for time and space you better comply,because trying to expedite things will backfire. trust me, it happened to me. Now Im back in square one and 40 steps behind. As long as she does not start dating you are good.
Thanks for your help on this Carmine. I’m with you, patience goes a long way in winning the heart back of your ex. I’m going to be like a groundhog now, maybe in 6 weeks I’ll see my shadow AND my ex?? 