Recent Break Up - Need advice

Me and my ex recently broke up after 7 months of dating. It was a very intense relationship, emotionally wise. I’m very in love with her. We broke up because she wants to learn how to be alone and unfortunately she also likes someone else. She is confused on who she wants and we broke up because it is not fair to hold on to me while figuring out. We just started the No Contact rule but I’m determined to try to get her back after that. We both love each other still but yeah, we have some figuring out to do. We both have to grow. I want to fight for her. What should I do?

Hi Goca,

You are right, you both have to grow for this to work. And there lies your answer, you should focus on growth and healing. Let her focus on her on growth and healing.

BTW, how old are you both and how long was the relationship?

I recommend you read my article on getting your ex girlfriend back for more insights.