Hi everyone,
I was going through my clothes today and I found a couple of shirts that my ex randomly gave me (she had about a thousand). I was wondering; should I wear one of those shirts if and when I ever meet up with her? Or would that be too obvious? Any feedback would be appreciated :).
U could talk about it but i dont recommand u to wear it … Be u not anybody … U own ur self and for things like these i know that u know what to do
I wont suggest wearing them,it will give her clear vision that you are thinking about her.
No you shouldn’t. Remember that NC is about improveing. Both on the inside AND on the outside. And on your first date it is time to show her this “new you”.
Not only do you want to show up in some old clothes that she has seen hundreds of times, you also want to show up in something SHE gave you? Sorry, but she is not going see the new you. She is going to see the OLD you.
You can wear them at home, or actually, if you like them, you can wear them anywhere you want, but absolutely not when you meet with your ex (or you have a chance of random meeting).
But as the others have said it before me, it would be better to chance clothing habits.