Quick question!

Just one question, would love to hear opinions.

When my ex broke up with me she said something along the lines of “If it’s meant to be, I’ll come back”. This leads me to think maybe she doesn’t want to 100% lose me in case she feels like she made a bad decision.

Say if I was to change my relationship status on facebook to in a relationship… What effect would you think that that would have on her?

Do you think it might make them think ‘oh crap, I’ve lost him’ and drive them crazy? Make her want me back?

Or do you think it’d push her closer towards moving on from me for good?

Now I’m not thinking of pretending to be in a relationship just to mess with her head, but I am considering dating another girl in the interests of potentially moving on or at least gaining perspective. And I don’t want to potentially hurt this girl’s feelings by not being willing to show that I’m in a relationship with her.

So which way do you think it’ll go?

Just realised that the last part of this post might make me look like an asshole lol.

So basically I’m kinda halfway between wanting to hold on and keep hope and try to get my ex back and moving on, I’m just considering all my options really. I’m not going to do ANYTHING for at least another month though.

First of all, I only put im in a relationship when its a steady one. Facebook doesnt count for anything in life, much less if you put you are in a relationship when you only started dating.

Second of all, I wouldnt do it just so she would notice and get to talk to me. If it isnt truthful I would rather have it not work because I was true to myself. Now you have to decide what you want really. I dont know how long you have broken up…