paradoxical

soo it was nice relationship…maybe he is just afraid of serious relationship?

That, plus stress… plus he told me I didn’t appreciate him enough. Which I could’ve fixed, I was just so busy with work. We had an amazing relationship. So part of me hopes he’ll come back eventually.

maybe he will…but you have to continue NC and be strong :slight_smile:

Oh I will. I don’t plan on breaking it anytime soon.

me too :slight_smile:

so do you think I can make her to start missing me with this NC?

yes, probably. but that’s not what NC is for. its for you to hea and become a better person for yourself and her.

yeah true and I will use it thath way…but really hopping we get back togheter whens she sees the progres I made and when she realized she misss me. Because she is very confused now

Yeah, today has already been the hardest day. I want to talk to him soooo bad. Its been one full week of NC. Im suprprised he hasnt tried to check in with me. It makes it all more real that he’s not coming back.

cmon dont quit now, you alredy survived one full week :slight_smile:

Thanks, I need all the encouragment I can get today. Im so tempted to snapchat him.

me too I just want to tell her one more thing and leave her alone

We cant give in. We let them win if you do.

The one more thing, its gonna turn into more things. We just need to get through the toughest first few weeks.

true…its so painfull :frowning:

I agree, but talking helps

yeah and you are the only one who understands me at this moment

well im glad to help

And you have to find some things to do go to gym or anything like thath. The gym is helps me to thinks on other things

Man, this one week mark is a killer. All I think about is sending a funny snapchat. I know I shouldnt. I just cant seem to keep my mine occupied.