Ok I have tried the no contact and finally started talking to her 2 days ago. Today, she initiated a conversation with me. We made great process today and texted for more than 2 hours. We talked for a lot, but mainly about school work. He didn’t seem cold for the whole conversation, asked about my stuff and in the end she said “I don’t want to talk then, bye”
It was kind of cold in the end but I accept it and said “Oh it’s alright. Let’s talk again soon!”
She was a bit upset about school work, but when I said “i’ll be here if you need me.” She then said “if it’s in a friend way!” It made me kinda sad too.
What do you think I should do? How can I reconcile our relationship?
@davychung96
For starters, you can stop texting her so often. Be friendly at school, but don’t initiate a conversation unless she does. You didn’t say how long you were together, but for now it seems she just wants a friendship and there’s not much you can do about it. It would have to be her decision to change her own mind. In the meantime, you can work on whatever issue that caused her to break up with you.
The issue was, I took her for granted and was being weak and was being selfish. Believe it or not, I’m over that and I think she believes I have changed (not that took her for granted).
She thought that she loved me more than I did to her. Right now, my mindset is very clear. I wish to re-attract her. What can I do?