So, i’ve created a few topics on here. I really enjoy others insight. ESPECIALLY when they have either been in a similar predicament, or have very good experience.
My ex and of 3 years broke up two weeks ago(It will actually be two weeks since we’ve broken up on our three years this thursday) I thought I was blindsided. But I guess I saw it coming. He was on edge for the past week and half or so before it happened. So when it happened, I didn’t beg or plead for second chance or for him to keep trying. I just listened to him, ask questions, and let it be for now. My emotions were surely a wreck for the week to follow. I texted him two days after we broke up saying “I just wanted to let you know I love and care for you with everything in me” he didn’t reply. Which gave me several panic attacks (Pathetic, I know)
I didn’t try to contact him at all until another three days after the text, I said goodmoring I hope your week is going well, he replied goodmorning it has been very well to me, (kind of dick-ish, don’t you think?) I asked if there was any possibility we could talk, he replied “yeah I have some of your stuff so we could talk then” of course my heart sank. That wasn’t what I wanted to hear. Eventually we set up a day to meet up (two days after those texts) so when we met up, it had officially been a day over a week we broke up.
I wrote him a very heart touching letter, I gave it to him. He said “that was very thoughtful of you, thank you.” he just seemed so cold, distant. I didn’t understand how someone I was so close with, so in love with, shared absolutely everything with, could just shut me out? He basically didn’t want to try to be friends. I still didn’t understand why he could just shut me out like that. It’s seriously not like him. I actually don’t even feel like I know him anymore.
So basically, after we talked I texted him the next morning letting him know I hope he keeps my letter and hopefully one day down the road we can talk again, yadda yadda yadda and he just says “well see but for now goodbye. enjoy your life.”
I just don’t know why he is doing this to me. I didn’t do anything horrible to him. We were both committed, loyal, we both had plans on moving out together soon.
I just don’t understand him…