Not even sure if we really broke up

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Hey…last week I had a pretty intense fight with my boyfriend because he has been talking to another girl online. I actually think he has a romantic relationship with this girl, but he won’t admit it. She lives in another country so maybe their “friendship” shouldn’t bother me so much…but it does.

Anyway, after our fight I tried to talk to him, but he told me he needed to be left alone. I tried again a few days later, and he still didn’t respond…he may have blocked my number. I’m not sure. I’m not blocked anywhere else though, and he watched my Snapchat story the next day.

Anyway, I haven’t tried to contact him again, and it’s been a week since he asked for space…5 days since I last tried to contact him. Is this a break up? Or just a fight? Should I continue No Contact until he talks to me or for a full 30 days?

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Sounds like he’s tired of fighting with you and needs space. Go full no contact for 30 days and if he wants to reconcile, don’t be jealous! If he contacts you first, apologize and try to work through your issues together.

3

I gave it two weeks, and this morning I sent him a simple message, “Do you want me in your life?”

Who knows if he’ll respond. I can’t live in uncertainty anymore.

4

Your message didn’t include an apology. In not giving him enough space, he’s probably still thinking of the negative aspects of the relationship. I hope he replies, but wouldn’t be shocked if he doesn’t.

Wishing you luck…