No Contact Rule w/ pets and I broke a lot of rules early

My girlfriend of 8.5yrs left me 3mos ago. We talked during that time and eventually she moved back in from her friends(where she only saw the dogs once or twice). Before she moved back in she went on a bachelorette to Cabo and met some guys. We lived together for two weeks when she said she wanted to move out. I went through her phone and found sexts and snapchats to a guy she met on the trip. I also found out that during those two weeks she was talking to late at night and trying to meet up with a few guys. She moved out 25days ago. During that time I broke a lot of no contact rules. I contactecd the guys she talked the day of, I contacted her friends who all think I’m crazy now, I begged for her to move back in, we called each other names, I was a text gnat, she blocked me on all social media and still thinks I’m crazy. I may be but I am getting help in therapy etc. I recently quit talking to her over Memorial Day weekend. It’s been 72hrs. She just text me that she wants to see the dogs. I think she is saying see them because I have told her that I can’t trust her right now and need things to settle. I also don’t know where she lives and truly don’t know if I’ll ever see them again. I also found DMs to local celebrities, she seems to be going through a 30yr old crisis and dating guys with money(I know because I still have her phone records) There have been 3-5 guys she’s talking to. How do I get her back and not piss her off with the dogs she cares so much about? Should I just quit cold turkey and make contact after she does in 30days or should I just let her see the dogs at the park or my house? I don’t know what to do and I think she might hate me for not responding and possibly take me to court for dogs she abandoned but I have always taken care of throughout relationship and last 3mos.