We had been dating for exactly one year when my ex told me he wasn’t ready for a committed relationship right now and wanted to see other girls. Ever since he broke up with me, he was finding excuses to call me once or twice a day. Last he called, i told him i was going shopping with a friend. This male friend is his co-worker. Ever since he hasn’t called. Pinged me on whatsapp this morning. Was extremely formal, just asked if I got a new phone (no idea how he knew) and how did I buy it (he knows I am broke for the month). I said it was on credit card. He didn’t ask anymore. I am wondering if he is beginning to forget me. He is a very logical guy.
Even if he is a logical guy, that doesn’t mean he will forget you. My ex is also a very logical guy. After the break up he would not respond to my calls or texts. I eventually decided to go 30 days no contact and after it was over I decided to text to see how he was doing and he responded. I am slowly making progress. I think you should go no contact right away. Try to work on yourself during this time. If he contacts you repeatedly, just respond and say you need some time to yourself. I really think if done correctly and given the right circumstances, no contact can work.
I’m sorry I couldn’t be of more help. Can you take a look at my post “How to Proceed after No Contact is Over” and let me know what you think? Thanks.
I am a very logical guy, but I can tell you that counts for nothing in the highly emotional context of a break-up. Even the most logical of us get swept up by our feelings.