Ill start with a quick history lesson. when we first started dating, my girlfriend and I were very much in love with each other. It was almost love at first sight. We had both said that nobody has ever make us feel this way. It was amazing for the first 5-7 months together but then she moved away for school turning us into long distance. It was there where I started to notice that after a few months of her being in school, that she was slowly distancing herself from me. She would not talk as much, sex was very minimal (even when I did see her twice a month) and she just became almost turned off by me towards the end which ultimately lead us to her saying that she wanted to end it.
When she told me over the phone, I took it pretty well. I wasn’t angry and I didn’t cry. In fact I told her “I’m not mad, I don’t hate you, I know you’ve been feeling this way for awhile now and you need to do this.” That’s when she started to cry before saying she had to leave for work.
Right there and then is when I started doing NC. This all happened on the day before Christmas eve and the next day she sent me a message on Facebook saying “I hope you and your family are fine and having a good holiday”. I replied with “thanks you too.”
I continued to do NC up until today (which is about 3 days of NC) and she sent me another Facebook message at 1:40am saying “hey sorry to bother you but do you think i can pick up my things at some point?”. I responded about 20 mins later and said “Sure thing just let me know when you can come down.”
And this is where I am now. I am waiting for her to respond (which will be sometime tomorrow.) I guess im just wondering if I still have a chance of getting back together with her and if I should keep doing NC until she sends me another message.
Thanks.