Need some advice

So my situation was more of a long terms FWB kinda boyfriend. We dealt with each other for a year and there was a lot of ups ands downs and confusing on my end. He would constantly ask me where are relationship was going and what I wanted from it and I would ignore the question because I did not know what i wanted. Later on after him being there for me often and things were well i told him i liked him and wanted to go out he said he wasn’t ready for a relationship because he had a lot going on.

So we stayed just friends. a month later i asked to resume FWBs he did not want to i respected . Then a month after he wanted to resume and I did not because I kept telling him i wanted a relationship.

Around 3 weeks ago we got into an argument because i was feeling ignored and confusion on “what we were” and he told me we should stop talking at least for a while. and i basically out of anger said we should stop talking all together and i guess ended it. He did not reply to what I said at all and has not written me usually we make up or talk things out by now but he hasn’t contacted me and I was the last one to text him.

We also do not have each other on social media (I chose to delete a few months back over a disagreement) and we do not have mutual friends.

Neither of you seem to know what or who you want for long term. When there is mutual love and caring, there is no confusion. I suggest you date others properly without making it a FWB situation. Within approximately 3 months of steady dating both should know if they want a boyfriend/girlfriend relationship. If one does not, it won’t work!

Begging and asking where things stand is a sign something is wrong. Toxic situations like that will NOT work out in the long run.

Therefore, don’t contact this guy and start dating others…