I wish i can read my ex bf mind. Huhu. I just want a second chance. Last chance. Im human. I did mistakes. But i try to make it right and he doesnt allow me to. In fact, he has someone else. Its totally unfair and i hate it. I hate the fact that he is happy without me and throw all his feelings to another gurl which is completely opposite me
Im sure at like 85% that the relationship my ex is in right now is a rebound because her things with the guy are moving realy fast, she is already saying she could not live without him after one month. She used to say that about me but i became that after 3 months.
The guy has the same hobbie as i do, good in school like me, takes care of her like i did. He took the spot i used to occupie in her heart, something she held dearly and was empty once she left me. Her best friend was around to help her out and then she started seeing him and then dating.
They started seeing each other 2-3 weeks after we broke up, they were official a month ago.
If what ive been reading recently is true, she is not over the break up she just found a guy who could take my place without the arguments we used to have or doubts i had about her friendship with her best friend…
And even if the fight is very hard to win and i have barely any chance to win i’m still going to try my best, i really love her and want her back!
@aryann your story seem a lot like mine in some way I say that to my ex all the time how can u give this new girl all the love we had it don’t seem right as he loved me so much makes me hate him…if he really loved me he be sat home missing me he says he miss me and that he still loves me but don’t wanan go throw all agen these ppl that all our ex have got with take our mind of us I think I’m never gonna win him bk while she’s on the sceen as ain’t had time to miss me I deffo don’t think she’s a rebound as I sed do u love her he sed why u asking me this ?? If he didn’t wud sed no 
and I no what u mean bout the other person being oppsit as this girl he’s with is more like him than me as she likes to party etc ok a stay at home mum kinda girl this stucks do we do no contact or will bring tham closer togeva
@samuel it’s defo hard to say it’s a rebound I’m Hopeing it is for me to as mine moved quick after 3 weeks us spitting up he moved in with her I no he had no we’re to live now he don’t live with me but still makes me sad…they are deffo moving quick and they say that’s a rebound right??? Guess me and u got hope that my ex and yours r rebound…I have been there wen it spoke to someone and made me not think bout him or anything so I no it does work but does help our situation but surely tham seeing eachother all the time not gonna help guess we got sit bk and watch we prob be over tham by then… But I have a kid which makes it hard…how long u been spilt up?? You sound like u.could win her bk if u give her time she mite just be hocked on him Cus it’s a rebound but he prob don’t feel this way
@ jessie2120
Its hard to understand whether or not their in a rebound, evaluate the facts and see.
But if you do love this guy you’ll never be over him you will always love him no matter what. You’ll get over the pain of the break up thats for sure but he will be on your mind from time to time.
Yeah I guess grr this stucks I just want my old life back
No you dont you want him back in your life in the near future where all the mistakes that were made can be avoided, repeating the past is probably not what you want considering you dont want to re live that pain of the break up or fights you guys had
Can I ask u a question as your a boy ? He seems like really likes her and she does him as now she telling him he can’t go mine only pick his daughter up and go but he still sleeping with me does it mine he still wants me ? Or Cus we been togeva 7years and he just wants his cake and eat it
If he really liked her wud he do that to her ? Or is he just not fully over me yet he don’t make time for me no more hardly txts bk
Well maybe he isnt fully over you but he could be using you for sex but he for sure dosent care much for his new gf.
Do the NC for 30 days and then contact him so he can make a decision if he is persistent on sleeping with you make him do a decision between you and the new girl thats what i would do to be honnest
But if i was the guy it would mean i’d still like you
Thanks bbe for advice and yeah deffo gonna try none contact worth a try not getting no we’re doing it this way…how’s it going with your ex anyway
Right now im doing the nc for 9 days. I know how you feel dear. Its really sucks for knowing thAt someone we loved didnt "care about you anymore. The worst part is they have someone else right away. Im not sure mine is a rebound since they known each other for 3 years (they were bestfriend before they couple). There is nothing i can do for him. I just try my best to do something that have benefits on me. I try to be happy, positive and take care of nyself. Its very hard but i have to. Seeing him with orher hirl, be happy and doesnt care bout me at all, its totally unfair
Well before i started no contact she said we were done for the moment, then i spoke to her bff to tell her it hurts me that she says that and then she told her so my ex told me she dosent love me no more and its over.
2-3 weeks after we broke up she was seeing her guy best friend, wich i doubted their relationship, then became official a month and a week ago.
She know i know but dosent tell me still. So she is hidding it in a sense yet she said that she couldnt live without him on ask.
That relationship is moving very quickly therefore i believe its a rebound.
She is getting warmer to my texts now but i dont know if ive got a shot, apparently i would according to internet haha
So i’ll see haha
Even tho he is her bestfriend but its still considered as rebound?
Yes go read the article of rebound relationships youll undersrand its exactly like the jane and garry story
But they have known each other for 3 years and they seem very happy and comfortable. i cant even watch how sweet they are right now. Very painful
Look my ex has known her best friend for 5 years they went threw highschool together. She hasnt dated him because he was a friend and she wasnt attracted to him.
Your ex like mine will realise that their filling a whole see both of us (you an i) were the best friends of our exes and lovers they replaced us by these friends because they are comfortable. They are not over us just give him time he will see you are in the begining f NC i understand your insecurities but you are a great person one that he once fell in love with and can do again! Show him what he lost 
Really? Your ex almost similar with mine. My ex bf told me so many times that he will not with her because she is his bestfriend and she is not romantic and they like to fight and teasing each other but at the end, he choose her as his girlfriend. Sigh. Show him? Right now im doing nc for 9 days and he still not contact me or find me. How to show him? After nc?
Well during NC dont worry about him contacting you or not. Your job is to not contact him and take time to improve yourself.
So hit the gym, do stuff you like, go shopping, hang out with friends, get new clothes, go on dates, make new friends.
Enjoy life!
Post updates of you having fun on social media’s so he can envy being by your side having fun. So he can see you dont need him to be happy.
Stop worrying about him contacting you, stop over thinking it wont help you at all it will drag you down and make you depress trust me i experienced it.
Seriously work on you dont think about what he is doing or why he isnt contacting you or how much time went by because only when you are ready to speak to him is when it will be time and for that to happen you must stop being needy and unconfident because its unatractive.
I worked on myself and started talking to my ex, i wasnt feeling it at first but yesterday i got her to agree to a meet up.
So do not give up hope follow the 5 step plan and read everything on this blog do all the appropriate steps and everything will go fine even if you dont get your ex back you’ll have become a better you and you’ll be smarter 
Can i post my new updates after the NC? Because im still working on nyself