Well i am supposed to bring my son out. But my ex sent me another text because i didn’t respond and said that he was going to get the rest of his stuff. It was one hour and twenty minutes since his first text. He would usually ignore me all day. I told him that i was busy and i wouldn’t be manipulated because i didn’t respond fast enough. And that i wouldn’t be home at 12. He then asked if i could leave his boots outside the door.
This is what i wrote: “Hey i was busy. I am home now. I didn’t tell you that you had to get your stuff. I’m not going to be manipulated because i didn’t respond right away. I am leaving by 1120”
Did he respond?
Yes. He told me to put his boots outside the door because he needs them for school. Was i wrong?
Well, the manipulated part was a little wrong because it shows that you were mad for him saying that he was getting his stuff back, try to be so short in a text message without showing any emotions what so ever.
Don’t let your emotions get to you
I feel bad now. I hope i didn’t mess up my chances. I listened to my older brothers advice. (Partially)
And i was upset about it. I wasn’t expecting that.
you didn’t mess up your chances don’t worry, i know now you are thinking of bettering the situation by contacting him, but don’t if he contacts you again about that matter don’t respond.
ok i hope so. Omw out the door. So i don’t run into him.
have fun on your day and try to get busy as much as you can
Thanks you too!
Im out having dinner with a friend and still thinking of sending him text telling him how much i miss him, if i get through this day i will be really proud of my self ;(
I am feeling the same. I had lunch with my son and i almost cried. I want to call him and then him sorry for being mean earlier.WE will get through today we have to. So we can be proud of ourselves and each other
Tell* him sorry
So I’m back home and he hasn’t come to get his boots! They’re still outside my door. What am i supposed to do?
take them inside but don’t contact him, wait until he contacts you back
But once he comes for them I’ll be home and I’ll have to see him. Isn’t that breaking Nc? How do i act when he comes?
Try to act normal and be a positive person let him see the girl he first fell inlove with the one who was full of life
I’m so nervous. I didn’t think i was going to see him so soon! How are you feeling now? What did you do so far today?