NC worked for me.

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Since you don’t have people coming back with their success, I wanted to mention mine.

When we broke up I freaked out and messaged her a ton. I ended up getting blocked.

She ended up getting in another relationship for a month.

I went 1.5 months of NC and she messaged me, wanting me back today.

I realized that I do not want her, but it did work.

2

So you didn’t take her back?

3

No. There was a reason we broke up.

It took me a month to see how manipulative she was.

4

So what if a guy mentions they just want to be friends and start seeing someone else immediately. Do you think there’s still hope for that? Or do guys actually mean that?