My husband & I of 22 years have been split for 2 weeks now. Today is day 1 of NC - what if he doesn’t miss me or try to contact me during the NC period does that mean he is over me? I have been the needy ex over the past 2 weeks & I know he is talking to a ‘good friend’ female every day! My husband has only ever had long term relationships so what if she isn’t rebound? Hurting so much to the point I frequently want to throw up! Please advise
Wow, 22 years is a long time. He probably needs space and another female opinion. I wouldn’t be threatened by her. Let him be. Be a strong independent woman! He’ll soon come running when he realises what an idiot he is and how amazing you are. He obviously thinks this anyway as you were together for such a long time! Keep going with the 30 days! After day 10 you will feel much better in yourself, and know what you want, or you will be getting to know what you want. Trust me, it works! It’s not always guaranteed to get them back, but I’m sure your situation is very different because of the longtivity!