So I just came back from a 2 week trip and on my way back home he contacted me and asked if I was back I replied with on my way why and he told me he wanted to talk to me I said ok. We met I went to his house snd he was so happy he had a giant smile on his face. Asked me to forgive him and if I could give him another chance like start going on dates hanging out I said a couple of things on how he hurt me and how I had let go of him. But I told him I would we hugged and kissed. Ended up going inside his house and we had sex. He told me he was sooo happy because he finallt has what he’s been missing. A part of me is happy and the other part still has the barrier up. But for now I just say I’m going with the flow w.e happens happens.
Glad to hear the good news of you two getting back together, but did he break up with the other girl? Because you didn’t treat him right is the reason he was unhappy and broke up with you in the first place… Anger never solves anything. In order to have a better relationship, you need to discuss the issues that caused the break up and resolve them together in a calm manner. What went wrong and how to compromise and fix it so you can both be happy.
From your previous post, it sounds like you might have anger issues. Work on yourself to improve how you deal with things and how to control your temper. Like One Love said; “Always treat people the way you want to be treated”.
I’m glad you forgave each other. It means you’re not holding on to past resentments, that you let them go and will never remind each other of them again. Yes, go out on dates, have fun and treat each other with love and respect:)
Hi Patricia.
Yeah we were doing fine but yesterday which is exactly one day later he told me he was confused because he thought we were going to get back together and it would be like the old times everything would just go back to how it was before. I told him no that it can either go 2 ways it doesn’t work out or it works and the relationship is better than before. He realized that he nevee gave himself time to heal from our break up so now he wants to do that and work on himself. I totally agree and support that but it confuses me becauae its like why do you come and tell me all these things and then change your mind the next day. He said I have changed a lot and I’m not the same person as before and now we botb have to get to know each other all over again. I told him that he needs to be alone and fix himself before he can be with anyone else but if he needed anything I would be there for him. Yeah they broke up. So now idk whats going to happen and I’m really confused. He doesn’t know how to be alone but he needs to learn. What do you think? I didn’t have any anger anymore but now I feel it because I feel like he wants yo play mind games again.