@cantsum that’s so exciting! Stay strong. I’m hoping my ex will contact me soon… and yeah that’s true I would have to work on my neediness.
BUT I AM SO HAPPY FOR YOU. Stay strong!!! This is definitely good she is thinking of you!!!
@cantsum that’s so exciting! Stay strong. I’m hoping my ex will contact me soon… and yeah that’s true I would have to work on my neediness.
BUT I AM SO HAPPY FOR YOU. Stay strong!!! This is definitely good she is thinking of you!!!
@Brokenhearted123 … haha thanks
I’m definitely taking this as a good sign. She must be thinking about me and possibly our relationship/break up.
I think you should follow what I’ve done, i.e keep no contact, deal with your anxieties and then possibly your ex will contact you.
I’m just going to keep cool now … do you think I should remain NC till the month is over?
Yeah I’m going to follow your example and we will see how things go… and yeah stay NC for now and see if she contacts you again. I really hope my situation goes the same how yours go.
At least she is thinking of you. Stay NC for now and see what happens especially if she thinks she can get you at the drop of the pin.
I highly recommend to wait until exams are over. If you throw your contact attempt in there in the middle she will most likely see it as distraction and will not be happy. It is good she sent a text but do not over think the meaning of it. take it as it was what she said. It does not mean she wants to get back etc. It means she sent you the money. The positive to take from is that she did it now so you are in her mind. But like I said to brokenhearted, person ending the relationship does not go through those stages in same order because they had time to prepare in their mind for the end of relationship because they thought about it before whereas to you it came out of the blue. She is now concentrating those exams and pushing thoughts of you out of her head as much as she can. She propably feels relieved that she does not need to worry about you right now and also bit guilty because she hurt you. Once her exams are over there is now avoiding of facing the situation and her feelings for you and then when she has more time in her hands comes missing, regret and moment of dealing with those feelings of course I dont know her but I have been in bit similar situation with my exams and breaking up so I am drawing on that experience. She is not me though but just try to think that there is a different way of seeing it as well.
Yeah Finntoga has a really good point.
Keep NC and if she says something else, definitely let us know. You can do it! You’re doing a great job cantsum!