Hi guys,
Long time since ive been here, i had to progress Some thoughts about my break up and today i think i finally realised I’m better off without my her
Short story about my situation:
My girl Said she wasnt happy with me and i was in love i became blind and didnt SAw THE struggle she had so i couldnt do Anything about it. She broke up with me on the 20th of febr.
I tried nc but on THE 25th of march i found out she was pregnant from her boss who she started seeing onze week after THE break up… THE same boss who Said to her that hè was in love with her on THE 30th of January. Although she Saïd she didnt but she cheated on me. They were texting eachother on daily basis when we were together. I thought iT was innocent since they worked together. But saying your relationship wassnt going great anyway doenst give her THE right to look for Someone else…
I became depressed and thought of doing Some wrong things and i almost did iT…but i realized i would hurt more people around me by doing iT…
I spend a lot of time with friends who helped me get through this hard time. In THE last couple of weeks i had Some contact with my ex. Mostly arguments about she was doing THE wrong stuff by keeping the baby and staying with this Guy. I think this Guy is wrong for her… She started smoking again because of him and i didnt think hè Will be as good for HIM as i did.
Today i decided iT was THE last contact i should have with her and i should kick her out of my life… She was really immature on THE phone and she Saïd this Guy is THE love of her life, how can you possibly know after 1 month???
She was acting all bitchy and immature to me and iT confirmed everything my friends Saïd about her…
She is a Total controlfreak, she always wants iT her way, she doenst have any Sense in other peoples feelings/ thinking and she always react with emotions and no sense of Logic at all…
Because of nc i realized she was becoming my life and i did everything her way… ( i didnt mind because i was in love). I came to my Senses and i could think clearly again.
I think i can move on now to live the amazing life i have ahead of me. I think I’m actually glad iT didnt Work out with her.
ITS beter to end now instead of when we have kids and then found out her true nature.
So guys, give NC a chance and improve yourself. Thats The most important part. You can have hope Getting your ex Back but don’t let your feelings get in the way. Give yourself time so you can think clear again. And sometimes you think you know Someone, but at the end their true nature appears…
This is the path i struggled on and i would like to Share this experience to all Of you with your broken hearts 