Ok, so mye ex-boyfriend and I wants to start over. He was the one who suggested it. He was also the one who broke up. We have both been out woth another person during the break, but it has only left us with more love for the other person. And we miss each other. I am terrified that he is going to break up with me again. We have talked about taking things slow.
Do any of you guys have any opinions or tips on what I can do to make him realize that he will not break up again, and to make this a better time around, find that newly love feelings in him?
Stay positive. Thats the main thing. Dont become comfortable. Do things that excite him emotionally…not just sexually. Stay looking good and get involved in activities together. Get to know his friends and let him get to know yours.
Enjoy the ride.
Also, just remember what has gone wrong and dont get stuck in the same routine. Good luck
I can understand feeling scared about breaking up again. I’d feel the same way in the beginning.
Try to take some time to focus on each other and having fun and connecting. When the time is right down the road, you can talk about the breakup. Taking things slowly is a good idea. You don’t want to rush or force anything, or get into a needy place.
If you spent time working on yourself during NC, keep up with those things. Take care of yourself. Don’t forget how awesome you are and that no matter what happens between you two, you will be okay!
