My ex is back, but I'm confused...

Ann,

I guess I am forcing myself to see the bright side of things. In reality, my gut instinct tells me that nothing will happen eventually - one additional detail is that I may need to move away for work purposes in a few months (not confirmed yet) and he knows it. He does not seem to be a fan of LDR from what I know about him. So I honestly do not expect much. Besides, we broke up last October, started talking again in February and things have been moving ahead at snail’s pace. Perhaps because he is thinking I will leave soon, no idea… It would not be realistic of me to expect a miracle in just a couple of months, right? As I said, at this point, I will do something if he does something first. If not, I will let it be…

@ Cecegirl1030

Thanks for your kind words. It’s pretty hard to get the “emotional independence” you mentioned but not impossible. I am still learning every day, it’s a long, tedious process.

U are on the right path to a great attitude laurah. And I too can relate to how hard it is, the wavering and emotions that come and go to affect that. Hang in there and keep thinking and acting strong and positive

@Soupy

Thanks! He will be abroad for the next several weeks and this is somewhat easier on me :slight_smile:
I hope that I will feel more at peace and less affected by the time he gets back.

How are things with you? Any updates on your story?

Yes there is, thanks for asking. I will post shortly on it. As I would like your opinion

Hi Laura! I envy your strength and spirit :slight_smile:
Wishing you all the best.

Thanks, One love

Like everyone else on this board, I have good, bad and sometimes horrendous times… The important thing however is to keep moving forward :slight_smile:

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