Meeting up- next step

reconciliation
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Hi everyone,
Me and my ex-girlfriend broke up about 7 months ago, I did all the no contact stuff and got myself into a good place. A couple of months ago I got back in contact and suggested a meet up and we have seen each other 3 or 4 times since then.

Everything’s good when we meet, there’s laughter and no awkward silences etc but I am not sure whether there is any chemistry. I certainly do feel like we would be good together and I do really like her, I’m just not sure if the feeling is mutual and I don’t know if she is seeing someone else.

I think I am at the point now where I need to tell her how I feel, just to find out either way. I’m ready to lose her and am ok with that. I’m quite a shy person but feel this is something I need to do face to face. Is this the right approach or should I keep meeting and hope something happens? Thanks everyone

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Hi @sam21,

How long were you together for? And what was the cause of the break up? Have you tried texting her the message that goes like this: “Honestly a part of me does want to get back. But I am ok with whatever happens. I understand why the break up happened…” The example is somewhere in the 5 -step plan. Obviously make it with your own words but with that idea.