Sending her flowers is a nice thing to do and I’m sure she will appreciate the thought. Hope things work out for the best (for both of you).
She did like the flowers. We’ve been talking and seeing each other when we can.
Today she said it. She told me she wants me back. She said she has wanted me back for a while but only today has she mustered the courage to tell me.
I am still skeptical, but opening up gradually. I told her that I think we should keep seeing each other and keep talking. I told her that I don’t intend to see other people. It wasn’t quite the answer that she wanted but she is alright with it.
Congratulations. I’m assuming you’ve talked about the issues that caused the breakup and the things you both will do to make a possible relationship better than it was before. Good luck:)
Update: We are together again. We have been for 6 weeks. She has changed and is being pretty good. I don’t know how long it will last this time, but of course, “permanently” is the goal, otherwise what is the point?
Good luck:)
It’s so satisfying to read through your development, and I’m really happy for you two. I wish things work out in the long run.
I feel kind of the same right now as you did. In my thread, you could read my full story, but to be brief, we’ve been together for 5 years, but we lost the connection part and a bit of affection, it’s still here on a physical level I guess, but the main problem was less and less talking and more of the boring weekdays. Right now I’m doing the AHW course, and things start to clear out. But now I don’t feel like I need her, I just want her, as I feel that we were so good without talking enough, how good we could be if we had put an effort in our relationship. I tell this as I went for partying, and I didn’t feel miserable, and a girl told me that she likes me even though I never told her a single word so I know that I won’t grow old alone 
I’m doing NC as we didn’t really had the chance to not talk to each other as we lived together and I had to move my stuff. When I last went to her place, she changed some things that kind of reminded her on us, and the chapter of her life that we were together (like putting board games away as we played a lot, or not having the stuffed animals on display), basically she did mature the design a bit, so I feel like she’s seeing someone a bit older, and she wants to be mature for that guy.
So I wait it out 'till I’m comfortable, send the letter and will see how things go from there.
Just a minor update. We are still together. We moved in together and she told me that she has never been happier with our relationship. I guess I did something right.
Congratulations! I hope all goes well for a very long time…