Does the magic second chance letter actually work?
Did u finish the NC 30days?
No I have only done a week
Finish the NC, that’s the only way to attract him back.
Or the more u chase him , he will be further away.
Have you done the NC and if you did, did it work?
I have done 2 weeks, but I will try to make him out first.
And I won’t do The magic letter, cuz he is not that kind of person who is easily moved by a letter. If he is interested in getting back he will express it …but if he is not, then he will express it either:)
Different people different way
Okay Thank you
Has he tried contacting you at all?
No, because I did everythin stupid on the list after we broke up:(, so it needs a longer time…
Also basically he broke up with me because he didn’t want to have the obligation to have to hang out with me all the time. I would have been fine if we could have just talked about it but instead he broke up with me. I feel like there is a chance he will start missing me and come back. Is there?
And I haven’t talked to him since we broke up.
Yes u do have a chance.
Start acting cool and show him you are not needy and clingy any more.
some background:
We went out for over 5 months and we had one little fight that we both got over but other than that we had a strong 5 months with no fights. Nothing drastic happened.
Well obviously he just needs space.
Especially young guys:) they won’t need same much space when they are getting old…
He is young and he needs time to realize he misses u
Ya thats excatly what his friends said. I’m giving him space and time for him to realize what he’s missing. On a scale of 1-10 how much chance do I have with getting back with him?
Well it’s hard to say, u know him better than me 
but u have a big chance…
Okay that means a lot to hear that. He’s a really good guy and he’s really sweet. He liked me a lot for a least a couple months before he asked me out and I didn’t really start liking him to like a couple weeks before we started dating. He’s a lot of fun to hang around and Ive grown to like him even more as we were going out and Those feelings for him are still there and its going to be a while before they go. If they ever do.
Good !Relationship Rewind
the feeling for u won’t vanish in 30 days, so just forcus on yourself!!
Keep us updated!
Sure thing. I will defiantly keep you updated. Just one last thing, will it take him 30 days to realize he’s missing me or just a couple weeks?
He also said that he doesn’t want to get back together and that its all him and not me. Does that mean anything?