Hello. My ex broke up with me a few days ago after two years together. He’s having troubles with his future: He came to my state to study but when grades and classes started to go wrong (according his parents) he moved with his family again. The thing is that besides distance we decided to stay together. His family was struggling a bit with money so I used to go visit him every time I had the chance.
Lately we had problems with communication. I recognize that I made mistakes and so does he. He said didn’t love me anymore and wanted to break up, I was destroyed and hours later I texted him asking how could he not love me anymore. He said he loves me so much but he didn’t want to make it work anymore.
The important thing here is that he’s now studying a career that he doesn’t really like, his mom is a bit controlling, he doesn’t like living in that state because it’s a really small town and it honestly sucks. Also he’s frustrated that he couldn’t keep studying what he chose in the first place.
I’m applying no contact. Is there any chance that he’s just going through a hard time and he’ll come back with time?
Long distance relationships are very difficult to maintain. Sorry he doesn’t like his career study or where he lives. Yes, lack of money makes life a struggle. He might reconnect with you, but nobody knows for sure. Good luck…