Hey guys,
so, briefly: after a month of NC, I’ve initiated communication with my ex via emails. It went good and it was her who initiated talking on Skype. She’s been very emotional, also jealous, stressed how she thinks about me and how I’m important for her and how she doesn’t want to lose me even if we don’t get back together.
The trick is it’s long distance. She’s a continent away and is coming back in July (and her being so far away was one of the causes of our breakup). When I – very subtly – implied we could get back together, she was like: “I’m thinking about it a lot. We will see when I come back.”
So, my problem is quite obvious: apparently, before she comes back in July, there’s not much I can do. It can’t get any better before she comes. What do I do? I can maintain this kind of communication with her but it’s emotionally intense, not always feel good and I almost think it doesn’t lead anywhere. I could do some more NC but I don’t see how it could help in any way at this point. She evidently misses me, I feel OK enough.
So, any ideas? Thanks!