Hey everyone. I made a post earlier this year. I’m coming up on 6 months of being ghosted after a very good, respectful and amazing nine year relationship. We were a great team and had a home/pets/life we built and we walked away from it all. Not caring about the home she invested in, pets, and all the amazing travel memories we have from travelling the world. I wish I could say I did something or there was an incident, while I’m not perfect, there was nothing. No reason outside of “I lost myself”. Classic avoidant. I’ve been doing a lot of reading and everything says it can be a year or more until there’s a break in their suppression, or they feel remorse. She’s a very classic avoidant. I wanted to ask - is there anyone here with reconciliation after a long period like this? What happened and how did they come back? Any tips, or ideas, words of hope?
Also I’m not sure if I mentioned it before but we’re both female if that helps or makes a difference.