I am a little concerned that and worried that i paid for the RR books and have been on this message board working to get my ex back and mind you it is working, im a little concerned that there is no one that has actually gone right through the process and got there ex back. i might be looking in the wrong threads, or it might be the blind leading the blind. Where is Kevin Thompson ? i have seen no comments from him ? i received emails for three days about helpful ways to deal with NC and then nothing for the past 5. Are there any leaders here or are we left to just read the book and work it out ourselves ?
if you havent figured it out by now, this is a marketing thing to help him (wish im sure he gets paid) sell relationship rewind. money making is the priority. as far as he can see it, we can help ourselves. we help him get loaded. hes too busy for all us individuals. cant say this for sure, but i can put 2 and 2 together. he said that we give each other the same advice as he would give. the only help hes been, that ive ever seen, is the five step guide and some help hes given to people that have commented on his blog, but mostly tells them to come to the board. No contact is what he suggests. ive read everything he has written, not just the 5 step guide. i think its mostly for simple, average relationships. he says to use your own judgements but it has helped. how many people do you read that do the mistakes before coming here? it is a good guide, but thats all it is. theres no sure way to get your ex back, he even says that. like he says as well, it may not happen, and you have to accept that. its mostly about making ourselves better people. and if our exs want us back after that, then thats great. all we are is a support group, we’re all running on the 5 step guide set by kevin, but all running around like headless chooks. a rather sad support group. you can get rr for free on the net. sorry to tell you this. but sugar coating just hurts us in the long run.
No no no, I know it works. IT is working in my situation and I appreciate the support. I was just wondering if there is a success thread or anyone who has gotten there ex back. I agree with you, I’m in no delusion that this might not work and I accept that. Don’t get me wrong or think I’m being ungrateful for the support because I do very much. I don’t think we are sad at all and as I read through more threads it just got me wondering where he is.
oh okay. well, the ones who it works for, usually get off here as soon as it does, so the cases are rarely documented. have heard stories were they have gotten back together but it doesnt seem to be the case for most.