It worked! Just wanted to let you guys know!

Hi people!

I just though, you might enjoy some encouragement in the form of my success-story!
Short summary: In the last two months of our relationship, I turned into the most needy insecure piece of sadness the world had ever seen. Basically, if I didn’t se him for 36h I’d already go mental. It was shit for him and for me. So he ended it, saying that he loved me but that he could not deal with the way things were. I felt horrible because I knew we did love each other and things had just gone wrong. He wanted to stay in touch but I had seen this website and went for NC. At first he didn’t seem to care. but after a short while he started texting me saying he missed me. I ignored the texts, as I was doing NC. His texts became more desperate and frequent. I ignored him and looked after myself, saw lots of girl friends, worked out, spent time with my family. After 25 days I agreed to meet him, on a friendly basis I said. He was so impressed by how strong I was and how great I looked (had worked out almost every day those 25 days) and he said he had made a big mistake and he wanted us to be back together but start something new. So far we’ve been doing so great! I’ve not been feeling needy at all, we are much better together and the issues seem resolved! It’s been only two weeks but I am so happy! Just thought I’d share that with you guys…

That’s such great news! I’m so happy for you!

Just wondering how long you guys were split up for?
And what you did to stop yourself from contacting him during NC when he contacted you?

You go girl! :slight_smile:

Yay, I’m so happy for you! It’s always great to read to success stories :slight_smile: And now that you know what it’s like to lose him, work hard at your relationship and try not to fall into old patterns. Best of luck!