Me and my bf had a wonderful New Years until he wanted to go get another drink at a bar. He ended up Leaving me there when I said I didn’t want another drink but he could drink after I told him politely I wanted to go home. I ended up giving him attitude when he kept pressing this caused him to burst out and leave me at the bar. The next day he said he couldn’t take my attitude anymore.And that I need to show confidence for myself.
I feel like after being polite and using manners I have to give him attitude for him to respect what I’m saying. After all the texts this is what he ended up saying. It breaks my heart letting you go but maybe we need this? maybe it’s the time? Idk a lot to think about. We need to love Ourselves better so things can be better in the future? But I’m sorry. However I will always be here for you. Definitely count on that. I don’t want to disappear from your life forever.
Then I replied summarizing what he said and agreeing with it. He then said I’m glad we are at an agreement thank you I feel better. I will do the no contact rule and try to reflect on what I did wrong but I just want others opinions about this. Thank you.
A gentleman would have taken you home when you wanted. After you gave some attitude, he left you at the bar which is another sign that he’s not a gentleman. I think you both owe each other an apology.
The later texts he sent sound nice, but could it be that he has a drinking problem?
No contact will help you both simmer down. Good luck.