My fiancé and I were together for 6 years and he recently told me he wanted to take a break. He’s been acting different lately. He has so much stress and he seems depressed. It was out of the blue when he told me these things. He also said that he wasn’t in love with me anymore etc. come to find out it was another girl. After about a week he started calling me and telling me that it bothered him that I hadn’t called him. And before u know it we were back together again. Well, sort of. He wanted to take things slow and start all over he said that he didn’t mean what he said about not being in love with me, that he was just upset. So we started all over and things were great. 2 weeks of this and he just doesn’t come home one night. I found out he was texting and seeing another girl. He didn’t come home all weekend. The Friday that he was a no show, I talked to him on his lunch break and he said that if he wanted someone else he would tell me and that he did love me, was in love with me. Then poof, he’s gone. He took her and her kids fishing over the weekend (it was all over her Facebook) and people started telling me about it. Is she a rebound or should I just move on and try to restart my life over?
I also wanted to add that he has been really cold lately. This isn’t like him. He has never treated me like this before. It just seems like he really likes this girl. He’s known her a long time but never talked to her or hung out with her until the day he left me again. so should I start the no contact rule again or just let it be?
Do you live together? You said he didn’t come “home” … but you also said stuff about “calling” and you talked to him on a lunch break? Anyway, he cheated on you and now he’s seeing the other woman. Doesn’t matter if it’s a rebound or not, he’s dating her. Don’t try to talk him out of doing what he’s doing. Just leave them alone and get on with your life. I’m sorry this happened, but he’s not a good man for doing this to you! Don’t contact him.
Yes we live together. He was at work when he called me on his lunch break. And i haven’t contacted him at all, and won’t. Just didn’t see this coming at all.
and he didn’t start seeing that girl until the Friday that he didn’t come home. which is why I felt that maybe she was just a rebound.
You don’t know for a fact that he wasn’t seeing her on the side at times or that he hasn’t been communicating with her before Friday. The point is that he’s cheating on you! And to make matters even worse, you’ve been together 6 years and he’s your fiancee? Totally disgusting. You might think about moving out or have him move out!