I know exactly how much it sucks thinking how the person you Love has disappointed you, I know how much it hurts thinking it may never work out and it may hurt like hell for a while but believe me it will get better. You may not feel the difference day by day but one day you will feel totally happy without him and thats the first step if you ever want to get him back.
Maria was he so needy in the relationship? And how could you handle such a needy man? He needs favors he needs attention he needs the world :).
He was needy and paranoid until we just argued and he became distant.
He said to me I’m lying about not having a paypal account so he can’t use it. That’s why I blocked him.
You said he was trying to get back with his ex. Doesn’t she hace money? Why they broke up?
No no he’s not back with his ex, they don’t get on. I don’t know if he’s even with anyone. He said he’d met someone else but if he has why’s he pestering me all the time, idk. I’ll probablt update if he ever wants to try abajn
Yeah he met someone else but they are just friends. Anyways if he doesn’t say he misses you and wants to try again, do not assume that he wants to reconcile.
I did the samething as you. I thought every time my ex returned was to apologize and make up. However once I discovered the real reason, I ended heartbroken all over. It’s so hard to accept that the same person who said “I can’t live without you” its the same person who said “it’s over”. It made me feel like I loss 8 years of my life behind nothing. I think that you should be glad yours was over sooner than later. Anyways my ex was determined not to let me move on, but neither to be with me. He wanted me single and sad for the rest of my life. However he was wrong, because I wasn’t born to cry behind somebody who doesn’t love me. I was born to be happy and fight for my dreams. During my second round of NC my goal was to find happiness with myself and I achieved that. I feel great of my break up and Im looking forward for what the future holds for me. I wish you the same. I wish that you learn this lesson and find yourself again. That single happy girl that your ex fell in love with.
Feel more positive now. If he ever wants me. He’ll get me.
Not feeling great. Hate the whole limbo of “will he ever want me”
The last time I saw him he hugged me said love you and “see you later maybe”
And now all he does is text me for stuff. I don’t understand.
@mariahbalenciaga - He said "“see you later maybe” Maybe? Please try to understand that he just wants money from you. Sometimes he seems nice, but it’s a game he plays while trying to use you for his own benefit. I hope and pray you meet a good guy sometime soon who would treat you as you deserve to be treated!!
I just want him back so much. Is it too late for him to want me back.
No they say the dumper goes through the break up different. They tend to go through the relieve stage first and then through the emotional phase. Us go through the emotional phase first and then relieve. I can tell you I past my emotional stage. I was devastated just like you, but now im relief. Im so happy that i forgot what i felt when we were together. So I dont miss it.
Just let your brain take care of this situation. Continue NC and it will start letting go of some feelings. And it will get used to being just you.
I just feel so crappy like waiting for him to text me
Its not too late.how long has it been since you started NC? Approximately 2 weeks or so? So its not too late. I think most of the times it takes guys around 30 days or even more before they start missing us again.
About missing him, there’s really not much you can do about it. Its gonna hurt and then its gonna hurt some more but eventually it will stop. I’m going through the same thing so honestly I don’t know whats gonna work to stop it but I guess no matter what we do, a part of us is waiting for them to come back and seeing it not happening sucks. We should accept the reality and deal with the pain. Its not gonna last forever.
He broke up with me 9th July. I fail at NC each time. Now is the only time I’m serious about it. On 17th July he said he’d fucked up with me then said he doesn’t know what he wants.
Its ok. Don’t break NC this time. Every time we break it,it means we should go through the pain all over again.I’m not just saying it to make you feel better but its really not too late. NC will undo any damage we had caused before starting it.
Maria I understand you. I went through all that sadness. You will get to a point where you really really miss him. You will think you must fight for his love, but don’t do it. Don’t sabotage yourself. Be strong. We are all here for you.
You’re all so lovely <3 I just want him to text me
You want him to ask for money again?
I want him to just want me again. To text me saying he’s made a mistake and things will change and he’ll prove it.