My ex boyfriend broke up with me about three weeks ago because I was being too needy in the relationship and he started having feelings for another girl. Instead of going no contact, I first made myself seem desperate by begging. So, I quit begging and finally decided to go no contact. It worked great since he kept on trying to reach out but my friend revealed I was purposely ignoring him to make him miss me and want to get back with me. It made me unhappier because I was seeing so much improvement in myself. Then, he got angry with me and saw that I was yet again seeming desperate. Not only that, but he was worried sick about me so it hurt that I’d purposely do that. He told me there is no way we are getting back together. I decided to apologize and then we started talking a little as he friendzoned me and nonstop talked about his new gf. I decided to go no contact again. Then, he thought I was plotting revenge to make his gf break up with him. I don’t know what to do since I destroyed every chance with him. I should’ve went no contact from the moment he broke up and not told anyone. He tells me he should’ve never dated me sometimes. Is there anything I can possibly do?
Way too much drama here! The guy is with someone else now, so you need to accept that and stop contacting him. Try to figure out why you were so needy during your time with him and make the necessary changes. Do this for yourself so that you can have a normal relationship with someone else in the future…
“He told me there is no way we are getting back together.” Take his word for this! Guys don’t say such things unless they mean it.