I chose that title because that’s how it feels. I started dating her in July and everything went great, we had a lot of fun and got intimate very quickly. Were i was ready for sex she just wanted to keep it to some touching, i actually respected her for that.
end of july she went on a holiday, i wanted to ask her to be my gf. i haven’t met her daughter by then but ok. she got back and texted me, sorry i like you but we cant be together. fast forward: 7 weeks of playing the hot and cold game with me at work, blocking me from social media. Apperantly she got into a relationship with someone during her holiday, in a matter of 2 weeks. but i got the feeling she wasnt in love. so 1 day i confronted her at her home, and told her i know you still like me. we ended up having sex unprotected 4 times the next 5 days. she cheated with me on her bf, and eventually got pregnant from me and miscarried.
the way she viewed me started to change, and not for the good. i was the same guy but she changed, got impatient, massive mood swings and told me several times we should stop seieng each other but got back anyway. than some other guy comes over, sleeps at her place, and she told me he would come, and stay over. ofc i dont like it…to her its normal.
during christmas / newyear she went on a holiday again, and suddenly other guys start posting on her fb wall, and she got into a fight with me about something trivial as she does normal. she is childish, cant talk to her, she blocked me from social media, later adds me on fb again. then she came back tried talking to her, she shuts down and acts nasty. than found out the moment she got back, she started seeing another guy, 3 years younger then her, give me a break, im 3 years older than her, she needs a grown up men, she is a single mother.
than i posted some nasty stuff, she responds tells me to get it off, or she calls the police ( for what? no idea ). she deblocks me from all social media,wow. we called for 45 minutes, not a real conversation, her just spitting fire and only letting me talk when i would raise my voice. i told her i know you still like me she hang up. she also told during that phone call, it was over for her, more than once ( clearly emotional ) and later even says something vague like, maybe in 6 months ( seeing me ) … i think she is in a rebound relationship, and she is also very secretive to who she is seeing. i dont like that at all.im more open.
now she tells me not to write her, which i will, ill do 30 day NC than contact her by sending a letter, and sending her a t shirt from me she really liked.
btw the day after our phone call, i walked through town with a pretty attractive girl, she is just a friend, and we crossed paths. she was there with her daughter & cousin. i said Hi, and she ignored me. the girl i was with told me, oooh she doesn’t like this one little bit. her face , she looked shocked and upset, because i was always so available to her.
How should i pick up from here, and how to handle the NC rule, can i post pics from me having a good time , and changing my appearance on fb? I want her back but only if she wants to change, so she doesnt block me from social media, acts this way when she sees me with a girl, while she is the one jumping from 1 guy to the next, and could this be a rebound relationship. I dont like to play games but this is all i have left