Its been 110 days since ahe didn’tcome home.
I’m working multiple programs and getting better all the time.
She still comes over, we want to spend time together. I feel complete when im with her. But I also spiral mentally when she leaves, usually for a good day or so. I’m scared to death that this is just going in circles and she’ll tire of me continually asking if she’s okay.
If you can, I would refrain from asking her if shes ok constantly. Just enjoy your time with her, have fun when you’re with her, but when she leaves, focus on a video game, book, tv show - whatever you enjoy that occupies your time. Asking her and hovering, and trying to be aware of everything about her will push her away. She knows you love her, let her be, and show her you have your own life outside of her, but be present when she’s there. Don’t constantly text her unless she initiates, and let the conversation end naturally. Let her see that you’re a strong, calm and confident presence. Good luck!
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Thanks, I needed to hear that. I know I’ve read it hundred times, but sometimes it helps to hear it from a real person. Thank you!