So i got back with my ex. We were broken up for 1 month. She left me. I did everything wrong. Begged cried anything to bring her back. I failed. I started reading about the plan so i tried it. NC killed me. But i got it down to perfection. I did it for 2 weeks. Today she messeged me wanting to talk. I accepted. I had a letter saying i had accepted the break up n i was moving on. I was really moving on. I had found out she went out with one of my friends. She wanted to talk about that. After 3 hours of talking she bow dpwn n said u have me. I cant do it no more u not being there is killing me. I was standing there shocked. I was tuff tho i had worked on myself alot shw noticed it. She mentioned saying how comfideent i looked. I said of course im moving on for something better. So by the end of our conversation she mentioned getting back i said idk i met people n im beimg happy without u. She broke down. I continued being tuff. She cried and said pls take me back i love u n cant be without u. So i said look if i come back its going to be under my conditions. I expect this this this n this about u N if u cant meet those im moving on. She saw i had manned up since the last time she saw me being a little cry baby begging her to come back. She accepted everything. We are going to continue slowly n hopefully it works out. I manned up n showed it I am in control now. N If it doesn’t work out i can now live without her. I grew up alot emotionally. So her leaving again wont break me dowm anymore.
So guys stick to the plan. man up for when you guys make the move they see u guys stronger than ever. It does work.
hi Juan10 glad to see you pull through.hope someday i will to.im 19 day NC but is very difficult because we work together.yesterday was close breaking NC and today we work together!the all situation drives me crazy.if you have the kidness to read my post and give me your advice would be helpfull.
Im really happy for ya @Juan10. I hope someday soon this happens for me. My ex was everything to me. Still in shock this break up ever happen. Each passing day gets worse and better for me. I need to just pull through until she contacts me; whenever that is. I will be confident and strong. I will talk about how we can improve as a couple, etc. I wish for what happen with you and your ex. Keep me in your prayers guys!
I was with her for 4 years. N believe me i though i wouldn’t get back with Her. I cheated on her 2 years ago. I did everything wrong for her to leave. But afrer begging N all the no nos i got myself together. I found out she was seeing this guy but i got really strong. i grew a pair n made it through. I met her cuz she wanted to talk i was going to let her go but she saw the confidence n how straight out forward i was n how i acted with confidence. I thibk that is wat she noticed And she was the one thag brought up getting back. I told her to take it slow n she is i know she is digging me. I kissed her and she seemed like she wantrd more and more.
So guys my best advice is get up n take care of yourselfs. I know how difficult it is cuz all we want is our ex but we’re forgetting the most import thing which is us. if you cant make yourself happy you cant make no one else happy. So get up go to church if you go or believe. It helped me alot. Or anything that gets you up. I’ve said it before if your ex knocks at your door how are they gonna see you when u open the door. Happy confident and up? Or sad depressed and crying? I knew i had to make an impression and i certanly did.
Today I was at the gym and started thinking he could be there with me. We never went to the gym together. How great would it be? Him helping me, being sweet to me. Me motivating him and seeing him all sweaty lifting weights ahah and I started feeling bad. I remembered your. “Man up” I thought to myself, although I’m a girl ahah. Wow. That weight that I was having trouble pulling, felt so much lighter now ahahahah I just was like man the eff up, felt angry with myself and pulled that weight like a sheet of paper x)
Good job guys. Yeah just stay strong. Trust me dont go by thinking if u got hope or not. U guys need to take care of urselfs first. The ex comes in later. If u guys sit there over thinking if this plan will work u guys are letting valuable time for urselfs go. Its YOU then ur ex.
Nice, I’m happy for you and i hope ill get the same results… Reading this gives me hope.
I almost gave up today… Talked to my ex her sister today and told me too much to make me super curious… I have to stop that. Even contacted my ex her roommate to ask how my ex was…
This NC is making me crazy…
and I started feeling bad. I remembered your. “Man up” I thought to myself, although I’m a girl ahah. Wow. That weight that I was having trouble pulling, felt so much lighter now ahahahah I just was like man the eff up, felt angry with myself and pulled that weight like a sheet of paper x)