I was an emotional mess after the breakup. Will he even consider getting back?

We were together for 3 years. When he said he wants to breakup, I was a mess. I cried, begged, pleaded.

Basically everything Kevin said not to do in the 5 step plan. I don’t know if he will ever consider being with me again. Please help

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Hi Brenda,

It’s very common for people to make these mistakes after a breakup. Don’t feel bad about it.

Just try your best to not make these mistakes again. Act out of self-respect and dignity.

And limit contact with him as much as possible. You need to be a stronger version of yourself if you ever want a chance of getting him back.

And remember, just because you want him back now doesn’t mean he is the greatest person on earth. You may eventually decide to let him go and move on from him.

Whatever happens, you will be fine as long as you are acting out of self-respect and dignity.