I sent him a text saying hi I just saw a missed call and voicemail from you. I think you requested some info. here they are. I gave it to him. then said, I hope this is the info you need. if you have anymore questions feel free to ask. with a smiley face. was that good? thanks
im going for my walk now so I’ll be back and keep ya updated. 
I think that was good! He may not reply you but don’t worry about that - he will contact you again. He is confused right now so he doesnt know what to do.
ok ya I just came back from my 3 mile walk and have to go to get my youngest at school. so on my walk he called one more time and i didnt answer but he then sent me a text saying thanks. then he called again but I didnt answer. thing being I gave him the info he wanted so why would he call me again? then he sent me a text saying why cant you pick up the phone? I didnt answer him. what do ya think? why is he contacting me ect? help. how should I act? should I text him back? anything? thanks
Lol dont reply. Its bothering him now. And now I am quite sure he wants to talk to you. Keep doing what you’re doing. Its a really good sign. Keep him wondering why you’re not talking to him.
I wish my ex try to reach out for me like that. Lol
really? im so surprised because he doesnt seem to do this kinda of thing. funny thing is i was telling my mother in law yesterday im done with this cause the pain was to much. how weird. are you sure? and for how long do I not reply or contact him for? btw hes known to “magically appear” in places so idk if he’ll try that on me again or what. im very confused and dont seem to think that hes trying to reach out to me. I find this very weird. hmmm.what do you think?
Hahaha! He really hates the fact that you are being unavailable. I think you should reply him though - not straight away but in a few hours time you can text him asking whats up?
he hasnt text or anything anymore. omg idk what to do. you made me laugh cassie when you said hahaha. lol so you dont think I should continue no contact? I think if I do text him back he’ll say nevermind or something along those lines, but im not sure. I think I should just ignore him but idk. what do you think? so you guys think that hes really trying to communicate with me? I wonder if it was because I was unavailable to him all day yesterday? but I was having me fun. lol. so what should I text him exactly? if I decided to? I think I should let him think what he wants just because he has hurt me so much, but is very confusing. ugh…what do you guys think? lol im going crazy here. lol thanks
DON NOT TEXT HIM. Remain unavailable. Don’t ignore him though. Let him try more and more. If he magically appears, tell him you were busy and were just about to leave him a text.lol.
If you remain available, he ll think as if he can have you whenever he feels like.
You need to keep up the nc. And you dont need to reply him. Its for your benefit.
After so many days you’re feeling emotionally okay. Don’t throw it away all lik that. Show him that you’re fine and can survive without him.
Aamls you do not need him. Most of your posts are asking how to act around him. I know you wonder and love this guy but you need to drop him. He doesn’t sound like a positive influence in your life.
Be confident. Go through with the divorce. Take control of the situation. Show him the consequences of leaving you and the kids.
omg he had called me like 2 or 3 times. im so confused. I thin it may have been a coincidence but he left me a blank message but in the back ground he was listening to romeo ft usher the song promise. ugh im trying not to put mind to it but ugh. sorry guys im not responding to ya, im pretty busy. ugh ill try to read and reply to ya’s threads later. omg im so confused. ugh lol any thoughts? im still not contacting him, im afraid of him showing up here. lol hes know to do that type of things. if he does what should I do or say or act? i need to be prepared. lol ugh
I guess hes not gonna look for me anymore. I wish he would but he probably doesnt miss me or anything, ugh 
oh wow I need to try to stay on top of doing me. I’m trying to stay strong, its hard, I hope I can continue this. someone just told me about a job. so hopefully this is another good thing for me. they told me to try it out so I am. this would be a great thing for me because my husband would bash me for not working lol and not only do I wanna show him but I wanna get a job for me and to feel independent as well. plus I could really use the money. lol I highly doubt he would contact me but I’ll keep ya posted. oh crap hes calling me now. I wonder why. should I answer?
Hahaha this is funny now! You are so worried that he doesnt miss you and stuff but he keeps calling you so of course you are on his mind! This is great for you with a job and everything, you’re on the right track and you are doing so well COngrats
ugh he left me a voice mail. he doesnt care about me at all. all he wants to know is if I found health insuarance or not so he knows if to drop me from his or not to. ugh and also which this is so weird he wants to pick up the kids at school so he could take them to school in the morning. he said to send him a text letting him know, since im not talking to him and he doesnt know why. ugh I feel like I hate him. this isnt fair or right. maybe he is moving on. im so confused and disappointed. ugh i just wanna cry. this is not fair. im gonna text him and tell him I need the health insurance. what should I do? anyone? @a.z. @cassie @bguarino @duvjun anyone? thanks should I just talk to him? should I ask him to add me to his gym membership? idk anymore. hes not even reaching out to me. I guess it is over.
@cassie. oh lol what do you think of what I just worte? this is so stressful.
I still think that it’s positive that he even bothers to call you and leave you voice messages. If he didnt care he wouldnt even ask you. If you need to be on his health insurance you should either text or call him back saying you need to be on it.
ive lost all hope. I think hes done with me. I’ll just text him and let him know then. ugh. I just texted him. saying: Hi I got a voicemail from you. I do need the health insurance. thanks for asking. was that good? should I ask him to see if he could add me to his gym membership? or is that to much? im so confused atm. I dont think he wants to go back with me and this hurts me bad.
what do you think @cassie do I still have a chance? im so confused. I dont think he misses me or anything. ugh this aint fair. it was to good to be true. ugh
I think the text was good Hmm, i’m not sure it’s a good idea asking to be put on his gym membership just right now… is it something you guys have talked about before? I think that you are on his mind a lot but it’s hard to see what he is thinking…