Hi Everyone! My boyfriend of 3 years broke up with me recently, because he was bored with our relationship and became just too comfortable. I am turning 25 this year, and he is turning 27, so this was a really serious relationship. Of course I begged him to come back after he broke up with me, but he told me to stop contacting him. He blocked me on Facebook and possibly my number (iPhone makes it hard to tell if you have been blocked or not). I did my 30 days of no contact and I have really been focusing on myself, even though I do want to get him back.
A couple days ago I mailed him a letter telling him that I accepted the breakup. And that I also have had made a lot of exciting and positive changes and would like to tell him about it when he’s ready. Now I am not sure what to do if he does not contact me after receiving my letter. Please let me know what you think. I could really use everyones help with this. Thanks!
I’m at the same stage, I finished no contact on Friday and sent my letter the day before. I think she should have received it by now but no reply as of yet. I’m not sure what my next plan is, maybe wait a week or two then send out a txt to see what happens.
I know how confused you must be, all I can say is wait and see what happens.
Thanks for your response! My birthday is actually next week, so I’m going to see if he wishes me a happy birthday. He most likely won’t, so maybe I will try to text him after that. Of course I won’t know if he got my text or not since he most likely blocked me. But I am definitely trying to stay strong!
Well I wish u all the best, stay strong its a long hard road and hopefully we’ll both get what we want